Short answer
“what a shame” in Spanish is ¡Qué pena!
How to say what a shame in Spanish?
How to say what a shame in Spanish? The most common answer is ¡Qué pena! (pronounced roughly keh PEH-nah). You can also say ¡Qué lástima!, which means the same thing and works in any situation. In casual Mexican Spanish, ¡Qué mala onda! is a slangy way to say 'what a bummer.' Use these expressions to react to bad news, missed chances or small everyday disappointments, and remember that 'qué pena que' is followed by the subjunctive: ¡Qué pena que no puedas venir!
Common pairings
qué pena que + subjuntivoes una pena que + subjuntivoqué lástima que + subjuntivoqué mala onda (informal)
How to use it
- ¡Qué pena! is the everyday all-purpose reaction to bad news, small accidents, cancellations and missed chances. It is standard in Spain and Latin America.
- ¡Qué lástima! means the same thing and is completely safe to use too; it can feel slightly more formal, literary or emphatic.
- ¡Qué mala onda! is informal Mexican slang; use it with friends in relaxed situations, not with bosses, teachers or strangers.
- After 'qué pena que' and 'qué lástima que,' standard Spanish uses the subjunctive: 'qué pena que no puedas venir.' Colloquially you might hear the indicative, but the subjunctive is the safer, more correct option.
Examples
¡Qué pena que no puedas venir a la fiesta!
What a shame you can't come to the party!
Use 'qué pena que' + subjunctive; here 'no puedas' is the present subjunctive of 'poder.'
¡Qué lástima que hayas perdido tu teléfono!
What a pity you lost your phone!
'Qué lástima' is a synonym for 'qué pena.' 'Hayas perdido' is the present perfect subjunctive.
¡Qué mala onda que se haya acabado la pizza!
What a bummer that the pizza's all gone!
Very casual Mexican slang for 'what a bummer.' 'Mala onda' literally means 'bad vibe.'
Es una pena que no hayas aprobado el examen.
It's a shame you didn't pass the exam.
Instead of an exclamation, you can build a full sentence with 'es una pena que' + subjunctive.
Common mistakes
| Wrong | Correct | Why |
|---|---|---|
| ¡Qué |
¡Qué pena que hayas perdido tu trabajo! | Vergüenza means embarrassment, not pity; use pena or lástima to express sympathy. |
| Qué pena que no |
Qué pena que no puedas venir. | 'Qué pena que' is followed by the subjunctive in standard Spanish; 'puedes' is the indicative and sounds informal or incorrect in writing. |
| Unnatural | Natural | Why |
|---|---|---|
| ¡Qué |
¡Qué pena que llueva! | Desgracia is used for serious misfortunes and sounds exaggerated for everyday problems; pena or lástima is the natural choice. |
FAQ
- How to say what a shame in Spanish?The most natural translation is ¡Qué pena! You can also say ¡Qué lástima! Both mean 'what a pity' and work in almost any situation across Spain and Latin America.
- Is 'qué vergüenza' the same as 'qué pena'?No. 'Qué vergüenza' means 'how embarrassing.' Use 'qué pena' to express pity or disappointment about a situation, and 'qué vergüenza' for embarrassment.
- Can I say 'qué pena' when I want to apologize?No, not as an apology. To say 'I'm sorry' for something you did, use 'lo siento' or 'perdón.' 'Qué pena' is a reaction to bad news, not an apology.
- Does 'qué pena' mean 'sad' or 'embarrassed'?As an exclamation, it means 'what a shame.' The phrase 'me da pena' can mean 'it makes me sad' in Latin America or 'I'm embarrassed' in Spain, so context matters.